Completed
her earthly journey at home in Wauwatosa on September 6, 2022 at the age 92. Beloved
wife of almost 70 years of Robert J Van Eerden, Sr. Loving Mother of Robert Jr.
(Kathy), Christine Johnson (Dave), and Michael (Ann). Adoring Grandmother of Amy
Van Eerden, John Van Eerden (Britney Trempala), Megan Van Eerden, James Van
Eerden, Ted Feierstein, Katherine Lunde (Ryan), Michael Feierstein, Lauren
Feierstein, Mary Piwaron (Tom), Jane Van Eerden (Steven Frautschy), and Matthew
Van Eerden. Fond foster grandmother of Jolene Heuchert (Mark). Lory was
especially proud of her three great-grandchildren, Mason Piwaron, Levi Lunde,
and Bellamy Piwaron. She was also survived by other beloved family and friends.
Lory was predeceased by her loving parents, James and Loraine Davies, and her
brother, James Davies Jr.
The
most important things in Lory’s life were her faith, family, and friends.
Lory
and Bob began dating in high school - they were the second Prom King and Queen
in the history of Washington H.S. Following graduation in 1947, both attended
UW-Madison where Lory graduated Phi Beta Kappa from UW-Madison with a degree in Business Administration in 1951.
Lory
and Bob married on October 18, 1952. As an air force bride, she accompanied Bob
to Texas and Greenville, MS, where she was a squadron accounting officer. They
returned to Milwaukee after the completion of his military service. With the
birth of Bob Jr., Chris, and Mike, the Van Eerden Family was complete. Lory worked in the accounting department of
F.W. Woolworth for a period of time after her children had grown. She also performed many volunteer services
for numerous organizations over the years, but her greatest titles were those
of wife, Mother, Grandmother, and homemaker, at which she excelled throughout
her life.
She
hosted many fun family events such as holiday and birthday celebrations at the
family home for almost 50 years, preparing delicious meals and desserts, as she
was an exceptional cook. She also started our special family tradition of
Christmas cookie baking and gifted life-long memories for her granddaughters
through the creation of the Posh Elite Girls Finishing School. She especially
enjoyed summers spent at the family’s Moose Lake cottage in Waukesha County,
graciously welcoming and hosting all that came. A dynamo when playing Rummikub or engaged in a feisty family
card game of Thumper, she would
remind those playing against her - as she stole a trick from them - “… you
can’t be nice in this game!” Lory also enjoyed scrapbooking and created lasting
memory books for many of her grandchildren. In recent years, Lory developed a
love for creative writing and was good at it.
Lory
was the most thoughtful, selfless, and compassionate person, always putting
others first. With her strong faith in
God, she prayed daily and wrote countless cards and letters - from her heart - to
encourage family and friends while keeping everyone informed of what was going
on in her life. She supported all in
attaining their goals and celebrated upon their achievement. She LOVED her
family “HEAPS” and in return was LOVED “HEAPS”.
God
has blessed our family with the most sweet, precious wife, Mother, and
Grandmother that we could ever have asked for. We will be forever grateful for
her unconditional LOVE and all she has done for our Family. She was a perfect
role model and had a profound impact on each of our lives. Not a day will go by
that we won’t think of her and cherish all our memories with her. She will live
in our hearts forever.
As Lory closed all
her letters over the years to her beloved grandchildren:
“Study hard, work
hard, have fun, but keep on the straight and narrow!!! Love you HEAPS!”
Pastor
James Gorman officiated a private service at WI Memorial Park. Memorials to
Wisconsin Special Olympics or the American Diabetes Foundation in honor of Lory
would be appreciated by the family.
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